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Merryn's family, including her two sisters, moved to another neighborhood in the same town when Merryn was 8, and she stopped seeing Ashley. Im glad he gets body boundaries and safety and Ill be pounding it into his head as long as I can. Victims are those who don't survive. My sister and I told our parents the next day (and) we were referred to the Children's Advocacy Center by police detectives to be interviewed. We live in a society that keeps it hushed and (there is) so much taboo around it; people are afraid to speak up and say this happened to them. A survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Erin has worked diligently to lobby every state to pass Erin's Law, beginning with her home state of Illinois in 2009. [2] The family pressed charges, and the cousin eventually confessed to three counts of child sexual abuse. That's where, 14 years ago, a then-13-year-old Erin Merryn first . Have there been times in your life when haven't done well? The only difference is now I am running from him in my dreams" (Merryn 49). I also learned in group how to create a safe place to escape to when memories flooded my memory.While I was not ready at thirteen and fourteen to immediately share the journey of what all I went through because I was still too ashamed the Children's Advocacy Center laid the foundation in my healing to one day let that voice be heard. However, Merryn said this time the perpetrator was an older cousin, someone she had viewed as a brother figure. One personal safety lesson learned at school that actually helped me in life was "stranger danger." Maryland is the latest state, joining the crusade last month. I will come get you, I know where you live, Erin recalled. So far 27 states have passed Erins Law since 2010. But instead of telling everyone to vote against it, she told everyone to vote in support of this bill. Illinois is the first state by law to mandate Erins Law. As for Merryn, today shes married, the mother of an almost 2 year old, and expecting her second child in eight weeks. She was also afraid she would lose her innocence. Choosing to forgive has led me to live for today. Do you believe one word is more appropriate than the other? The first abuser, our neighbor, is someone I think who did this to any girl he had access to. The founder of Erin's Law. I survived it and eventually learned how to thrive from it by breaking my silence and putting a face and voice on this silent epidemic. Im terribly concerned about that, said OBrien. CAC The place Erin Merryn broke her silence The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County Illinois In 1998 seventy five thousand six hundred and forty seven abused children were seen in one hundred and thirty nine Children's Advocacy Centers in America. (2016) Consider This Self - Author and Children's Advocate. Says Merryn: "[Ashley] made me pinky promise not to say anything. One thing my abusers kept telling me was that I had no proof that they were hurting me, so why would anyone believe me? That is what brought Erin to tell her story at Metamora Township High School last Monday afternoon, during an all-school assembly. After her parents decided to move Erins abuse ended but only brought her that much closer to her next abuser, an older teenage cousin who lived down the street from her. Sponsored by Rep. Geran Tarr, D-Anchorage, HB 233 puts Alaska among the states considering "Erin's Law" in 2014. Merryn: The first thing someone can do is start talking about it. This decision has brought her on a crusade across America to pass what is known as Erin's Law. I wouldn't have quit my job four years ago as a master's level counselor to go after this had I not been lead by the Lord. CBS News' Reena Ninan visited a public school in Illinois to see how the school teaches kids about safe . While the party was going on, and my friend's mom was in the house, this neighbor cornered me in a bathroom and abused me. I think he knew that once he had us conditioned, we were easy targets. But then, it started happening behind closed doors at crowded family functions. Read more about Erins Law at www.erinslaw.org, or about Erin herself at www.erinmerryn.net. These monsters are living in all of our backyards., (Tip: Offender Locator is a great app to have on your smart phone.). 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Children are taught that the police are their to keep their communities safe and lock up the bad people. IG: The_Cat_Named_Carrot.Ellen is Carrot's biggest fan. I was keeping this secret with my best friend because he was also abusing her, Merryn said. Visit Amazon.au's Erin Merryn Page and shop for all Erin Merryn books. The law was passed in a number of states,[7] with New York becoming the 37th in 2019. As an adult, she's reclaimed the voice her abusers tried to silence. You didn't just tell one person. So many children will be protected because of her." Product Details Resources and Downloads Stolen Innocence Triumphing Over a Childhood Broken by Abuse: A Memoir By Erin Merryn Published by Health Communications Inc EB Distributed by Simon & Schuster LIST PRICE $12.99 PRICE MAY VARY BY RETAILER Get a FREE ebook by joining our mailing list today! In Living for Today, readers find that Erin cultivated the strength to face her abuser . How do you identify? It would have given me courage to know that I didn't have to live in constant fear that they could hurt me, and hurt me even worse if I told anyone. 5 talking about this. People would be amazed how many people this really does affect and that they know but have never come forward. It ended only after a chance conversation between Merryn and one of her sisters, who blurted out one day that their cousin Brian was "gross." I remember being so utterly confused.. She published a book called Bailey No Ordinary Cat that showcases Bailey's unusually gentle interactions with her three children. I also give lots of insight and resources to parents in my third book An Unimaginable Act on warning sings to look for like bed wetting, wearing extra layers of clothes, avoiding a certain person, not wanting to be around them when they had no problem before, academic changes in school, depression, withdrawal, nightmares, aggression; acting out sexually, she said. 46 reviews. CBN News Self - Children's Advocate. The man, then in his late 20s, abused her several more times in the next year, including, she says, raping her during a daytime visit when she thought he wouldn't be home. Named by PEOPLE Magazine a HEROES Among us and one of fifteen women changing the world. And for the next year and a half, repeatedly told me, This is our little secret. I also tell parents don't give childrens private parts pet names. Erin Merryn, the bill's namesake and a survivor of sexual abuse, said she is frustrated by the governor's slow response to sign it into law. Do you still stay in contact with him? The more I shared the more I felt heard like I was lifting this burden off me and by the way the forensic interviewer was talking to me and encouraged me she gave me the message she believed me. They talked for hours about what had happened, and the next day told their parents about their shared horror. Merryn saidif parents are not comfortable, the bill allows parents toopt their kids out of the education. Merryn: Many don't realize that there are 42 million survivors in America of child sexual abuse. But Ashley begged her not to say anything because Richard had told her they would "lose the house" if the girls told anyone. It allowed me to go on this mission to be a face and voice for millions by letting go of hatred and instead turning pain into a purpose. Bucco introduced Erins Law (S-2145) on May 2. Then, Erin said she told her family too. These days hes almost 9 and I dont really tag along to play dates anymore, but every time I drop him off, I tell him, if you have to use the bathroom, lock the door and have privacy. Merryn cautions that you can never just go by how many registered sex offenders are in your area. The bill had already passed the House . Alaska Dispatch: In your quest to get Erin's Law passed in every state, you must have encountered some surprising remarks. Every other headline horrifies the public with another predator taking not just advantage of a child but everything from a child. Merryn said the abuse only stopped because her family moved away. MORE: Cancer-surviving mom stays strong for her son. The abuse went on for years. The legislation, "Erin Merryn's Law," (S.6182 Klein/ A.8993 Dinowitz), would require schools to make a change to their . I went to bed night after night crying into my pillow having nightmares, and keeping my secrets locked away in my childhood diary., Merryn found her voice at 13 when her younger sister said the words shell never forget: Brians gross!. She began to think about all the other prevention classes and drills she learned in school: how to say no to drugs, what to do in case of a fire, what to do in case of a tornado, how to never answer the door if parents arent home. The instruction will be provided by a school nurse who has completed professional development sexual abuse and assault awareness and prevention. 35. Merryn said she testified four times for the task force. I found myself locked in bedrooms, basements, bathrooms, a car, garage and repeatedly assaulted by my cousin.. I continued to write him because I wanted answers. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual ab After reading that letter, a switch flipped inside Erin. You seem incredibly resilient. If someone ever does touch you in those areas, you tell immediately., Merryn suggests the books The Swimsuit Lesson and The Right Touch.. Merryn lay on blankets on the floor next to Ashley, who was in her bed. www.accessonline.com/videos/ellen-degeneres-gives-internet-famous-cat-a-call-in-quarantine, www.rainn.org/news/president-signs-measures-support-state-action-prevent-and-address-child-sexual-abuse, www.accessonline.com/videos/ellen-degeneres-gives-internet-famous-cat-a-call-in-quarantine. Names were the only thing she changed. Behind those numbers are the faces of innocent children whose childhoods were shattered by actions of evil and sickness. She was named Glamour Magazine Woman of the Year in 2012 and a People magazine Hero Among Us for her tireless work promoting Erin's Law nationwide with a mission to our keep children safe by educating them about personal body safety. Every parent should do their homework before they send their kids anywhere. It is currently passed in 37 states as of January 2021. Erin Merryn born February 2 1985 is the author of Stolen Innocence Living for Today An Unimaginable Act Bailey No Ordinary Cat and The Diary of a Cat. Erin, a Chicago-area native, first introduced the legislation in Illinois, and the bill was given her namesake. Should someone have known something was wrong sooner? Childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist Erin Merryn is the founder and president of Erin's Law. She has appeared on Oprah, Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, Fox, MSNBC, TLC documentary Breaking the Silence, CBS This Morning, Katie Couric, Tamaron Hall, 700 Club, and over 200 local media stations. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. 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